So you met a great guy and everything was going great between the two of you. Or so you thought it was. Then al of a sudden he ghosted you. Don't return any texts, or calls
Your like WTF?
When it comes to relationships, women and men have unique perspectives. From first date etiquette, to when it's ok to have sex with their partner.
However, when a man pulls away from the woman he’s seeing it’s usually for a specific reason.
Here are three HUGE mistakes women make that push men away.
Women are CLINGY
If there’s one thing that’ll send any man running it’s a clingy woman. Of course, it’s nice to be affectionate and show him that he’s on your mind, but when you make him your be and end all, he’ll start to feel smothered. Men hate being smothered. That's what mothers are for. So men start pulling away
What’s worse is when you make it known that you’re falling for him, too quickly. Since men are looking for fun in the beginning of a relationship, letting him know that you’re already planning your future together will scare him away. Instead of showing your emotions too soon, it’s crucial that you remain calm, cool and collected. Stop being desperate! He'll pick that up!
Women are insecure.
Statistics have shown that 97% of women are unhappy and insecure with their bodies.
However, when it comes to relationships showing your insecurities is never a good idea. So dont inundate him with your diet and gym plans.
The problem is that once your insecurities start to show there’s no going back. He will start to view you in a differnt light. Start showing how confident you are. Learn to love yourself, and he will pick up that vibe from you.
A good tip to follow is to pretend that every date with your man is a first because there’s no way you’d let him see this side of you then. For more ideas on how to boost your self confidence click here and watch this free video presentation from relationship expert Amy North.
They’re unhappy without him.
Just because you’re happy when you’re with him it doesn’t mean that he isn’t catching on to your negativity when he’s not in the room. Men, actually anyone can pick up on that typ of energy. This leads to clinginess.
You don't need anyone to make you happy. You are more than capable. Do the things that you love to do, fill your time with making yourself happy first. PUT YOURSELF FIRST!! When you do, you’ll not only be making yourself happier, but it’ll improve the overall quality of your relationship too.
For a deeper insight on what pushes men away take a moment and watch this free video presentation.